Here is a traditional breakdown of who pays for what. For many contemporary situations, it's about who is able to afford the expense and if they are willing. Some brides and grooms often absorb their own wedding costs or the families on either side. Just remember to be honest, keep an open mind, communicate and always be gracious.

The Bride & Her Side

• Reception, Food and Drink
• Invitations, Announcements and Postage
• Rental of Ceremony Site
• Bride's Wedding Attire
• Gifts for Attendants
• Bridesmaid's Luncheon
• Engagements and Wedding Photos
• Bridesmaids' Bouquets
• Bridal Consultant
• Music
• Musicians and Soloist Fees
• Videography
• Wedding Cakes
• Wedding Gift for the Groom
• Wedding Band for the Groom
• Personal Stationary
• Transportation for Bridal Party to Ceremony and Reception

The Groom & His Side

• Rehearsal Dinner
• Honeymoon
• Marriage License
• Bridal's Engagement and Wedding Band
• Gifts for Best Man and Ushers
• Boutonnieres for All Men in the Wedding Party
• Mothers' Corsages
• Bridal Bouquet and Going Away Corsage
• Clergy, Officiate or Judge Fees
• Groom's Formalwear and Accessories
• Wedding Gift for the Bride
• Fees for Shipment Gifts to Couple's New Home